Millionaire Dating - Meet millionaire singles

Any need, want or desire that you have related to the pursuit of a mate can be found with an online dating service. Looking to marry a millionaire? Try Millionaire Match. Love a man in uniform, or wear one every day? Then take a peek at UniformDating. These sites, and many others like them, actually exist. And if you know where to look, they are pretty easy to find. But first, you need to know what you are looking for, as there are more than 9 million websites currently catering to the singles market.

Difficulty: N/A

Time Required: 2-3 hours

Here's How:

1.     Determine what kind of relationship you are looking for. Something serious that may lead to marriage? Casual dating to ease you back into the dating market? Sexual encounters with no strings attached? Friendship-based interactions that could lead to romance? If one or more relationship types interest you, make a note of that as well.

2.     Create a list of things that you are looking for in a relationship, mate, date or sexual partner. Do they have to be a certain height, have similar interests, be of a certain income or intelligence level, live nearby, be open to dating a single parent, or speak a certain language? There are dating services that cater to each of these factors, and they may or may not be of use to you in your search.

3.     Next, decide on a price range you want to abide by when searching the dating services for your perfect mate. There are several excellent free dating sites out there, but sometimes the added perks and membership numbers of the larger, more expensive dating services are worth the cost. Either way, have a monthly amount you are willing to spend in mind.

4.     Are there any online dating services that you've heard great things about and want to explore? Have friends told you to steer clear of a particular site? If so, add these to your criteria list.

5.     Create a list of potential online dating services to review. You'll eventually want to get the number down to 5-10, but for now add as many as you like. If you can't think of where to look, start with typing into your favorite search engine the requirements you listed previously, with the word 'dating' appended onto the end. For instance, if you are interested in nerds, type in Nerd Dating and see what you get. Write down your results or save them to a specially bookmarked file.

6.     Of the websites you have listed, which offer you the most amount of options in the dating criteria important to you? Many of the larger sites provide you with a wealth of options to choose from when both posting your profile and searching for someone - which offer the most that suit your needs? Put these at the top of your list. Any that are too expensive, don't have a lot of people in your geographic area, or offer few matching options should be removed completely.

7.     Choose some of your top criteria web dating sites - the amount is up to you but try for less than ten. Take advantage of their free signup (every single dating site offers free signups; it's contacting people that costs money). Search the other members, take a peek at the features, and smile at a couple of interesting singles. See how the interface works, and whether or not the quality, and quantity of singles in your area is acceptable.

8.     After a week or so, you'll notice that you spend more time at one or two sites. Maybe they are easier to use, pleasing to the eye, quick with response times, have a plethora of singles to choose from, or offer many of the features you need. Whatever the reason, you'll know within the week which sites to invest more time into.

9.     What if none of your top ten take your fancy? It's back to the original list of dating sites you compiled in step five. Don't worry - you'll find exactly what you need and want. It just takes some of us a bit longer than others.

 

Not too long ago I was trying to find a new way to advance my learning in the ways of a DJ. I've studied most of the relevant material, been active on the forum, and have gradually been getting better and better with women.

In every failed relationship, whether it was a few dates or 6 months or longer, two things came into play to screw things up:

1.     A failure on my part to keep being a DJ with her over time.

2.     A failure on my part to recognize the woman's bad attitude and dump her before getting past 60 days.

I got a spiral notebook and started writing. I went through all the women I've dated in the past two years since I started reading this stuff, starting with the most recent because it's freshest in my memory. For each woman there are two lists that I made:

1.     My mistakes with so-and-so.

2.     So-and-so's bad qualities that I ignored.

The list of my mistakes in relationships was the most striking because several of them kept re-appearing in every list. I remember Doc Love's claim that if he could interview your last 10 girlfriends, they'd all give the same reasons for getting rid of you. Now I could see that it's true!

The good news is that I apparently make fewer mistakes with each successive girl, which shows that I'm learning. However, it was never so clear to me as it is now. I've managed to find things I've been doing that I never realized before and probably would have denied doing because they were so blatantly dumb.

The list of bad qualities I've ignored in women was also striking because a lot of the same things came up with different girls. You know how when you get over an especially painful breakup, you look back and say "what the hell was I doing with her in the first place?" You'll say it more than ever after making this list!

The next step was for me to list the red-flags and indicators of certain behaviors in women so that next time I won't be too blinded by my interest level to recognize them. So instead of being vague and saying "she was very insecure," I'd add "she was calling me twice a day after only a few weeks which is a red-flag indicating insecurity and neediness." So next time it happens I'll be more aware and realize that I may need to get rid of her.

The culmination of my notebook was preparing a section listing my "self-improvement plan," i.e. the things I need to change and improve about myself in order to stop making the same mistakes with women. This is also something I can refer back to whenever I'm dating someone who I have high interest in and make sure I'm not doing the same dumb things.

The second section was a description of my ideal woman, much like the "The Relationship Begins Before You Meet Her" article at the site. But this time I used the list of all my ex's bad qualities to narrow it down even more. For example, one chick was psycho due to her mother's bad parenting as a kid and up to this day. So I added, "she must get along well with her parents" to my list of requirements.

At the moment I'm dating a few different women and things are going better than ever thanks to the fact that I keep my notebook handy and refer to it before and after every date. I highly recommend this to everyone, no matter how far advanced you are in your mastery of DJ skills!

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It's a well known and much debated economic principle that "the rich get richer". When it comes to finances, the rule tends to be that those who already have a certain level of financial liquidity tend to find it tons easier to make even more money. Given that financial institutions and investment houses everywhere are happy to have people with gobs of cash store it on their premises in return for some level of interest compensation, it's easy to see why all of this is sort of, well…true.

As the saying goes, "It takes money to make money". Or at least it's a whole lot easier when that's the case.

And guess what? The exact same principle holds true when it comes to dating and attraction. People who already have lots of MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) in their lives keep on attracting more.

Now obviously, there's no "First Bank Of Wildly Successful Dating" to invest in. So figuring out why the "rich get richer" in our field of interest is going to take a different train of thought. Here are the Big Three reasons why I think things are the way they are:

1) Confidence Attracts

Once a person has seen some success in attracting MOTOS, then he or she rapidly becomes very comfortable in the notion that he or she TRULY IS attractive. This kind of swagger naturally manufactures that elusive brand of confidence that men and women alike think is irresistible. I mean, once you have actually succeeded at something, there's no use in continuing to doubt your capabilities, right?

2) Options Attract

Every good sales professional knows that people buy on the approval of others. If everyone else seems to be snapping up a commodity of some sort, then it must be good stuff (at least theoretically). If MOTOS are attracted to you, then other MOTOS will see that as a green light to join the crowd.

3) The Less Significant The Risk, The More Risk We Can Tolerate

The financial analogies just keep on rolling, don't they? Well, they keep on making perfect sense in context so why not? Savvy investors have an eagle eye for high returns with minimal risk. In the dating world, if a man or woman already has, say, six or seven MOTOS on his or her "radar screen", he or she may not even care to add any more…unless of course someone comes along who raises the bar. Considering that in such a case one's entire social life does not hang in the proverbial balance if a prospective date happens to prove uninterested (or uninteresting), a person with a lot of dates already is relatively unaffected socially OR emotionally should an approach not pan out. After all, there's already enough "social proof" to go around already when one's Black Book has lots of entries.

Somebody said, "Yeah, yeah McKay. So how do I get there?"

Just like creating wealth out of poverty in the financial world is NOT easy, there is no "magic potion" for wealth creation in the dating world either. But I do have a fascinating concept for you, that if put into practice just might get you on the road to Wild Success.

Back when I was a sales manager for an IT company, I offered my teams something I called "Millionaire Training". Essentially, the trick to BECOMING a millionaire on paper is to become one IN YOUR MIND first. And how exactly do millionaires carry themselves? Well, first of all money is no option. "Financial freedom" means not worrying about making ends meet. A true millionaire is not focused on money. He or she is FREE from that. So a MILLIONAIRE sales person isn't concerned about commission checks. He or she is focused on the customer, doing the job because he or she WANTS to be there. Second, millionaires have NOTHING TO PROVE. Having already achieved great success, they have no need to flaunt their "money" to people. Finally, millionaires understand their fortune and are GRACIOUS to those who are not exactly millionaires themselves just yet.

Most who are TRULY successful financially are particularly charismatic people. After all, the traits outlined in the previous paragraph are INTENSELY attractive. And every single one of these traits translates EXACTLY into how a man or woman who creates WILD ATTRACTION conducts him or herself.

Think about it.

"Dating Millionaires" are not focused on "getting someone" -- especially sexually. They lead satisfied lives, and focus on masculinity or femininity instead of a biological sex act. Similarly, they are never NEEDY or CLINGY. Why? They've been FED. They aren't hungry. Finally, people who "get richer" in the dating world are never rude or pushy with anyone. Knowing their intrinsic worth, they conduct themselves with a regal dignity and afford others the same respect.

Does your frame of mind line up with that of a "Dating Millionaire"? If not, what would happen in your life if you visualized belief in your ability to get there? How would your approach to life change?

 

 

Women fall for different things in a man: his personality, his manners, his character and inevitably, his position in life or simply put, his wealth! Most women would like to be swept off their feet by a good natured, personable millionaire, and to escape from the humdrum and toil of earning a living to a life of fast cars, fine dining, fancy villas and fame and fortune. Some women, in fact, are always looking out always for a rich man to date!

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What distinguishes one woman from another is the degree to which they are willing to sacrifice other criteria for judging men for the sake of only his money. For some, money is all that matters but for others it is only one of his qualifications besides the other main qualities like kindness and a sense of humor. The former is always searching for ways and means to find a rich man to date. As Marilyn Monroe remarked in her movie, 'Gentlemen prefer Blondes', 'Don't you know that a man being rich is like a woman being pretty?'

As primates, women were drawn to men who were powerful, agile, able to provide and protect. This amounts to money, career and success in modern times and attracts the most number of women. Thus it is an instinct nurtured over thousands of years. But if instinct is what guides you all the time you may belong to an exclusive group of women who are looking for a rich man to date and who are aptly called 'gold diggers'. And their objects of desire are mostly, ageing, loaded men, called sugar daddies.

Thousands of women today are looking out for sugar daddies. The most notorious gold diggers like (the late) Anna Nicole Smith and Darva Conger who chose to hook up with rich men openly for their money. Smith married ailing and ageing 89-year-old wheelchair-ridden tycoon J Howard Marshall for obvious reasons and has been locked up in a legal battle with his children over his billions, after his death. Darva Conger embarrassed herself by winning the gold-digging reality show on T.V called "Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire" as the millionaire she won, turned to have a criminal record. She later married a paramedic.

There are enough women who want a rich man to spawn many study courses and books on the subject. Lisa Johnson, author of 'How to Snare a Millionaire' runs a course on " How to Marry a Millionaire" where she claims that there are over 1 million single millionaires in L.A. county alone. She gives ingenuous tips like "Learn to play golf as millionaires love golf." Such tips are aimed at her students who want to find a rich man to date.

Gini Sayles, married to a millionaire and an expert on the subject, gives tangible advice to novices: upgrade your wardrobe to natural fabrics like 100 percent linen and silks, to blend in with the rich crowd. Try to get employment with a rich man, by which you may come into contact with other rich men. After all, Bill Gates fell for Melinda French, who was his employee.

For girls on the look out for a rich man to date, there are also Millionaire Match websites MillionaireCupid.com. It got a recommendation from Forbes.com as 'Best of Web' and the Wall street Journal. Sugardaddie.com is another web site that brings together millionaire singles. Some of these websites even have multimilionaires underplaying their wealth. You may need to do more than just sign up for a free membership with some of these websites to get anywhere. You need to be pro-active, sending mails, creating interest in yourself.

In New York, the trend of young, educated women, frequenting expensive bars, clubs and charity events hoping to date a rich man, is nothing unusual. The key factor there, for landing a rich man, is "location, location and location" according to an insider. They cite Frederick's, The Bull and Bear, So Ho House, Don Hills etc. as the hot spots that attract Wall street types and investment bankers.

But general wisdom suggests that finding a rich man to date is a risk-laden affair, as men with money are often choosy and whimsical. It is better to look for a man with a good nature and character.

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