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Happy news: I've bought a flat. Still haven't moved in, or exchanged contracts, and I'm slightly dreading the hassle of home-ownership again: the council tax bills, the blown fuses, the demands from next door that Céline Dion is turned down. But you can't live like a student for ever and basically I'm pleased.

In fact, so surprisingly painless has the process been that I have found myself wishing that relationships were more like property. Wouldn't it be great, for instance, if potential partners came with the equivalent of a home information pack, outlining character flaws, and maybe their carbon footprint? Or if you could get surveys done on romantic prospects to get an idea of the trouble that may lie ahead? Or if you could negotiate over fixtures and fittings, have minor imperfections fixed by a Polish builder, rent them out if you get bored, etc?

And wouldn't it be fabulous if dating was more like buying a house? Indeed, it strikes me that what the eight million British singles really need is online "housedating": a website that, instead of relying on personal statements, photos and information about star signs, allowed people to find partners by exchanging information on how and where they live.

A house, in contrast, reveals almost everything that you need to know about someone. Anyone with a granite sideboard, for instance, is clearly a fashion victim. Anyone with no book shelves has no soul. Degree certificate hung in study: working class. Degree certificate in loo: middle class. Renting: commitment issues. Alphabetised CD collection: anal. Shoe rack: uptight. Corner sofa: pretentious. Spider plants: humourless. Desolate garden: self-absorbed, unnurturing, workaholic. Jacuzzi: sleazy. Cellar: kinky. Tennis court: Tory MP. Landscaped garden: Labour MP. Home cinema system: Shahid Malik. Tudor effects: John Prescott. And so on.

As Jane Austen understood and the producers of Through The Keyhole and Grand Designs realise, houses betray even subliminal truths about individuals. I've just been discussing my new flat with a posh friend, informing her that I was planning to install a plasma screen TV above the mantelpiece, having forgotten that the middle classes have a thing about hiding their TVs, and I doubt that she would have been more horrified if I'd announced that I was installing a turbo barbecue in the bathroom. The detail revealed something that I'll never be able to change: for all my middle-class pretensions, I will always be the child of immigrants.

There are other attractions to online housedating (the domain "housedating. com" appears to be available, by the way), not least discretion. One of the main reasons that singles resist the online thing is that they worry they will be spotted by friends, colleagues and enemies, who will then mock their desperation and loneliness. But photographs of attics, bathrooms and tasteful kitchens would ensure privacy.

Furthermore, if online housedating were conducted within the regulatory and legal framework of the traditional estate agency, you'd have much more confidence. You'd obviously get a few people claiming to live in Chatsworth when they have a bedsit in Bilston, but there could be compensation if things were misleading, and as solicitors would govern the set-ups, as they police house purchases, there would be legal recourse if/when the relationship went wrong.

Which brings us to the most appealing thing: housedating would restore the role that wealth plays in romance. There are some dating sites that tackle the issue of income directly: many Asian matrimonial sites ask you to state your profession and income, for instance, millionairecupid.com ("the world's best and largest dating site for successful singles, admirers and friends"), wealthychats.com  ("find and meet wealthy men and beautiful women"), seekwealthy.com ("we have thousands of successful and attractive members who recognise that life is there to be lived") are brazen about it.

But most sites ignore it, or tiptoe around the subject, pretending that it doesn't matter if someone works at Burger King or is a hedge-fund manager, when we all know that it really does. As the writer David Sedaris recently put it: "Money tells you 70 per cent of what you need to know about someone."

And as property tells you 70 per cent of what you need know about someone's money, online housedating would get you straight into the things that matter. Though I'm not sure that it's particularly encouraging that property prices have been falling at record levels and there appears to be no end to the downturn.

Green Bay, US, July 1, 2009. Over 71% of women who visit websites like WealthyChats.com for a bit of fun do not see online flirting as cheating and more than 72% of men share the same opinion.
A recent survey carried out by flirting dating site, collected more than 5,400 responses from men and women who currently have a spouse or a full time partner. The fact that over 70% of both males and females answered 'No' to the question 'Would you consider flirting online as cheating?' would suggest a shift in public perception.
With the rise in popularity of introduction agencies and online dating websites came the inevitable birth of casual dating for people looking to flirt and have fun on the net, people whose aim was not to find a soulmate with a view to getting married but only to make new friends and have fun along the way. A more relaxed approach to relationships is now growing stronger.
Views on online dating have changed over the past decade and casual dating websites are now popular amongst the British. Just as many dedicate time to watching TV, playing console games and browsing the web, a great number of people are now spending time on online flirting websites. The future of online dating is yet to be decided but it is safe to say that an increasing number of British men and women, currently in a relationship, regard their online chats and flirting sessions as a fun and harmless way to spend their spare time.

Staff Sgt. Bruce A. Green deployed to Iraq in 2006 during a particularly perilous period of the American occupation.

The destruction of the Golden Dome in Samara had set off a ruthless sectarian feud that caught American troops in the unenviable position of trying to forge a democracy while stemming off a civil war.

Like so many of his comrades, Green tried to keep it simple: Focus on the mission as a combat engineer and come home alive.

But he had another important target in his sights as well: finding love.

In his limited free time, the motivated Army NCO found comfort in a relationship he struck with a woman far from the dangerous Iraqi streets.

Melissa Borrego was a Texan who volunteered at the Dallas airport branch of the United Service Organizations. She saw firsthand the relief troops felt arriving home and she respected the men and women in uniform serving on death's doorstep.

The two met on a popular Web site that matches couples in search of love and companionship.

And as it turns out, Staff Sgt. Green isn't alone. One major online dating service has seen a 56 percent increase in members who list their occupation as military in the past two years. And Green's anecdotal evidence supports those statistics.

"It's not just me," Green told in an interview. "Two of my Soldiers have married someone they met online. So many of us get sick of having to get a new girlfriend after every deployment. We want someone who's going to stick with us through the hard times."

A brooklyn, NY man has sued match.com for $5 million, accusing the most popular online dating website of fraud for posting profiles of eligible singles who can't be reached at all.

According to Sean McGinn, who is 37, he hated meeting women in bars, although it may be a nice choice for some guys to meet new singles. Online dating seemed the right and nice option for him. So he carefully constructed his profile, worked hard to include all his great characters in the profile. Let's see: "Last Reads" .... Eat, Pray, Love, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, Love in the Time of Cholera. "Likes" ... Leather jackets, the movie Cocktail, Caribbean steel-drum music, oh! And Lisa Kudrow in The Comeback! "Smoking?" ... No way! "Interests" .... NO DRAMA.

Things were not going well for him. All the women he tried to contact got back to him. So he made some adjustment and improved his profile: "Interests" ... Wine tasting! "Pets I Like" ... Lions! Ha ha! "Body Type" ... Average Cuddly, but Toned! "Turn Offs" ... Skinny dipping. "Turn Ons" ... Thunderstorms. Again, he got no response after a long long waiting. Finally, he got the result:  None of the women he was contacting were real. And his emails might not be read at all! He had been sending hundreds of carefully crafted, artfully capitalized messages into space. He was humiliated and fooled by the dating site at the very beginning. And he paid for nothing. Then Sean McGinn got mad. Really mad. And called his lawyer.

This dating story turns out to be a mess. It's not proper to say someone is right, while another one is wrong. But we should keep an deep eye on the problems. Match.com is one of the largest international dating site. But is it the best dating site for everybody? On match.com, unsubscribers (free members) can do nothing. They can't send emails, and they can't even read emails from other members. In their own words: "if you want to email, if you want to read email, you must subscribe. If you don't subscribe, you can do nothing". When you send an email to another member, you don't know whether your email will be read. If you want to know that, you need to subscribe more.

Are all the dating services working this way? Of course not. If you don't like the 100% free dating sites just because of their profiles with hookers and frauds, you are still able to find a number of dating sites which don't restrict messages. MillionaireCupid.com is one of them. Members can join them for free. But only paying members can initiate email messages. Free members, on this site, can view and reply to emails without subscribe. Compared with the paying to read emails on match.com, it's more humanized. At least, the members you contacted has the ability to read your emails and reply to you without restriction. Sounds much better? Actually it's easy to find other sites with similar features.

As to online dating, a correct choice at the very beginning is very important. There is no need to trust the words which dating site is the biggest or the largest... just like you don't need to marry the more beautiful or the most handsome, you just need the dating site that works for you. Online daters, make your choice wise!

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